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Cake day: September 6th, 2025

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  • i just wish more would actually say no instead of saying “thanks” or something neutral like that

    i can take rejection but thanks comes off like “eh. maybe, but you seem kind of lame/weird”, which in my head becomes a challenge to show them your not lame. which is a thin line between trying to convince them to give you a shot vs being pushy/creepy, if that thanks was meant as a “no thanks”.

    as an autist, it frustrates me when people don’t just say what they mean.